Virtual Divorce Mediation
DIVORCE AT YOUR PACE
Litigated divorce can take months, sometimes years, at your cost of time - and a lot of money. Denisa has the experience and efficiency to handle some divorces in one meeting!
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Virtual Divorce Mediation: We live in the world of instant gratification. We can get groceries and even a doctor delivered to our doorsteps with a few clicks on our mobile device. Now even a divorce. NO, there is absolutely nothing gratifying about divorce and untangling years of financial history should not be handled lightly or even impulsively! But once the decision is made, why add more complication and pain to what's already complicated and painful?
In the litigated model the couples are forced to communicate through their lawyers, fit into their busy lives the schedules of lawyers, experts, and the courts, chase down financial documents, and deal with delays and mounting legal bills.
The obvious contrast is mediating but even in some traditional mediation models, there is still the pressure of managing calendars of professionals and dealing with the mounting fees.
I began to experiment with offering mediation sessions virtually for couples who were in different geographical locations and wanted to move things along. The feedback and results have been overwhelmingly positive, and demand is growing. The virtual process seemed to ease some of the pain and anxiety. I developed a new virtual model with a personal touch all wrapped into a one-stop shopping center.
The session(s) are done from the comfort of the couples’ individual places and they dialogue, listen and watch me model financial options and discuss parenting schedules on their i-pads and laptops. After the sessions are completed, I prepare and deliver the mediated financial and parenting agreement and financial disclosure documents via email. These get filed and the process is done and the healing can begin.
Instead of an impersonal, publicly humiliating, expensive, and dragged out battle, my virtual mediation offers: ease of scheduling, availability and accessibility, quick response, privacy, efficiency, transparency of a flat fee pricing model, control, thorough financial oversight and expertise to divide finances equitably and understand the long term impact, and all with a personal touch.
HOW DOES VIRTUAL DIVORCE MEDIATION WORK?
During your free initial phone consult Denisa helps you determine based on your circumstances, financial situation and parenting and personal dynamics whether Virtual Divorce Mediation is a good fit.
YOU ARE NOT LEAVING ANYTHING ON THE TABLE and NOT WASTING TIME! DENISA ANALYZES YOUR ENTIRE FINANCIAL SITUATION BEFORE YOU GET STARTED
Denisa provides you with a list of financial documents and information that is collected ahead of your virtual mediation. She analyzes your financials and builds out an easy to understand inventory of all of your assets and debts, as well as your incomes - wasting no time.
Once the financials are ready, we will confirm a time for your one-one and a half hour long Virtual Divorce Mediation session that fits into your work and personal schedules, and sends you a virtual screen share invite.
VIRTUAL DIVORCE MEDIATION SESSIONS ARE 1:30 (One & a Half Hours)
During the virtual session, you follow Denisa's screen as she models, right in front you, various asset and debts division options and cash flow scenarios (including alimony and child support) to help you see how the divorce will impact you financially. For example, it will help you both answer:
- Who can afford to keep the home and trade other assets.
- Keep the home or the 401k?
- What it does to your taxes when you trade assets?
- How do you deal with debt?
- How do you decide how to deal with a business?
- Stock options?
- Kids College Fund?
- Do you nest and keep the house and take turns in it?
She plays often times a devils advocate and raises issues that you may not be thinking and runs through 'what if scenarios' to help you minimize conflict in the future. She helps you prioritize and come up with a plan to start untangle your finances now. She works with you on your post-divorce budgets and helps you think about expenses that are commonly missed.
YOU NEGOTIATE AT YOUR PACE. SOME OF DENISA'S COUPLES WRAP EVERYING UP IN 1-2 SESSIONS WHICH MEANS THEIR DIVORCE PROCESS IS A FRANCTION OF A TIME THAN A TRADITIONAL LITIGATED PROCESS WHICH TAKES MONTHS AND YEARS!
DIVORCE MEDIATION EXPERT: Denisa captures all your financial agreements in great detail as well as your parenting plan into a Memorandum of Understanding (just like lawyers would detail in a settlement agreement). She also assists in completing your Financial Disclosures for your filing in Court.
ALL MEDIATORS ARE NOT THE SAME:
Denisa is a Certified Divorce Financial Expert, Certified Financial Planner, Mediator, Forensic Financial Expert and more, who holds an MBA, with an impressive list of career accomplishments to her credit.
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